CAT
SOCIALIZATION
Many
people think cats to be aloof or antisocial. Not true; it takes
time, but cats frequently form into social groups. One of the more
essential elements in a cat’s life is stability, and once a
group is formed (other than a kitten born into the group), introducing
a newcomer may prove to be challenging. Cats thrive on routine and
any changes, socially or environmentally are likely to produce a
noticeable change in behavior. Most commonly, this will occur when
a cat is introduced into a new home or when a new cat is brought
into the group. Be patient. Your cat will eventually adapt.
It
is common for your cat to hide or become distant when a new cat
is introduced. Refusing to acknowledge the newcomer, acting out
to “show whose boss”, hissing, and batting are all quite
common first reactions. New introductions should always be supervised
and never forced; cats will adjust at their own pace and forcing
them may make the transition more difficult for everyone. For some
cats this may take just a few days, for others it may mean weeks
or months. Never restrain the cats during this process; each one
must have a “safe place” to run if it feels threatened.
Putting
your cats in separate rooms that are close together will allow them
to get used to each other’s scent without causing harm to each
other. In time, as both cats become more comfortable, leave their
doors ajar. This will allow them the freedom to come out and check
each other out on their own terms.
Cats
can become very jealous. Give equal time and toys to each one. Play,
pet, and “baby” them together. This will assure the established
cat that he or she is still just as important to you and allow your
new cat to feel like it is a part of the family. It will also show
them that being together is a positive experience.
Both
of our adopted cats came from multi-cat homes, so they were used
to sharing litter boxes and food dishes. For others, especially
an “only child”, you should provide an additional litter
box, food and water dishes for the new “kid”. When they
become more comfortable with each other, they may be willing to
share.
Kittens
and adults, male or female, there are many great cats awaiting adoption
at any of our local shelters. It is one of the most special gifts
you can give yourself, your family, the community and the cat in
need
by A.J. Parnell
New York Pet Gazette
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